Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Marvellous Three Words To You


Just Three Words
There are many things that we can do to perk up and strengthen our interpersonal relationships. Yet the most effective involves the saying of just three words. When spoken or conveyed, these statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and rest old relationships that have cooled.

The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship

I'll be there.
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there." Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.

I miss you.
Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."

I respect you.
Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become close friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.

Maybe you're right.
This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe your right" is the humility of admitting, "maybe I'm wrong. Let's face it." When you have a heated argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point of view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational manner.

Please forgive me.
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

I thank you.
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

Count on me.
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me."

Let me help.
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.

I understand you.
People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. This applies to any relationship.

Go for it.
We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how weird they seem to you. Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to "go for it."

I love you.
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and your family, all need to hear those three little words. "I love you."

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Raining Cold Day


Today is not a good day for me.When running for my company reports, there are different figures and not tie with the reports sent to Japan.Now nobody can help me, just can wait for tomorrow because all my senior colleagues went back home. Today many staffs go back on time. Why i still in the office? Am i hardworking? No!Because of raining, i cant go back.Poor people ma...no money buy car so use motorcycle to go to work. Nevermind, one day i will get my own car myself. I wont give up so easily.

Now i getting worried and worried. Why i still cant get the call from IBM? Am i disqualified from the test?Huh....One week already passed. I still have one week chance to wait for the call from IBM. I really hope that i can get this job. But what to do...see how is my luck...coz recently my luck not so good.

Many things happened and make me really not happy nowadays. I know i need to face this kind of situation so that i can grow more faster internally. In order to face this kind of situation need to have strong sgility.

To all my friends outside (in Malaysia or overseas), thanks for all your concern. But i really fine here and learn something that i never learn before. No worry about me and i can handle it. I wish i can go through all those hard barrier and will have a nice day in the future.

Haizz...rain still haven stop yet.I cant go back so have to stay in the office to continue my work. Anyway wish you all all the best and have a nice day.

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Deepest Feeling~~

Last night, i was told to be stayed.
I really dunno how to do, i was softhearted person so at last i was stayed.
I know that the problems still exist and we really need give each other time to think about our future.
This few days, i considered many things; my career, my relationship, and my family.
Which is the most important in my life?
Last night, i was touched and happy that you are so care about me.
If can, i rather stop the time and it maintains like that.
I really don't want the things happened and happened again.
It will make people bored and tiring.

I really don't want make the things complicated and complicated.
For me, i just want to be myself and have a simple life.
If we just can be friend then we need to treat each other like how we treat our own friend.
I just want to make clearly that friend is friend, girlfriend is girlfriend.
It is two different definition.
If you cant accept my shortage, it will make both of us even more suffer vice versa.
At last, i want to make the my conclusion with one song that i listened this few days repeatably.


爱情不能做比较

车子里收音机空气中还飘着雨
在这个深夜里你应该在他那里
有多久没再遇见你
房里没了你的气息
而我终于扔掉了你给我的所有东西

我可以填满了生活里每寸空隙
我知道不容易但我仍试着继续
听说你比从前开心
我还能有怎样的情绪
除了祝福我不想再多说一句

他很好 他多好
这些我并不需要知道
再难忘掉 多狂烈的拥抱
这回忆他也给不到
他多好 和我不同的好
最后是谁不重要
因为我知道 爱情不能做比较

就算是今天换一个人依靠
明天谁又比谁好
爱看不到听不到怎么做比较

别再说他很好 他多好
这些我并不想要知道
再难忘掉多狂烈的拥抱
这回忆他怎么给的到
他多好 和我不同的好
最后是谁不重要
因为我知道 爱情不能做比较
希望你知道 爱情不能做比较


Monday, December 1, 2008

我的亲爱的家人




每个人都有属于自己的一个甜美家
今天我要介绍我的家人给大家认识。
首先我先来介绍我的英俊潇洒,没有他就没有我的Daddy!

帅不帅??
在我的心目中最伟大的人,就是他了.

那接下来,我要介绍的是我的美女Mummy
她是我心目中的偶像.
她厨艺一流,
做生意也一流。
她就像我的好朋友,无说不谈。
现在就让大家看看我的美女。

这就是我的美女啦!呵呵!

在接下来,我介绍的是我的老哥,我唯一的哥哥。
坦白说,我以前是超级的讨厌他。
他不只是常欺负我,
脾气坏,
使家里吵吵闹闹。
但是,他实在改变了很多。
我真的真得很开心。
我朋友都说他很像我,真的有吗?
有的朋友说他比我还帅?
很期待看看他的样子吧!


有吗?他有比我帅吗?
哈哈
你们就说实话吧!
我一点都不会介意的。

接下来,然大家看看我的全家幅吧。
我们在PJSS2一间婚纱店拍的。
那婚纱店名叫TOM COLLECTION


谢谢你们一路的支持,我爱你们!
我要努力加油!

中JACKPOT咯!太有运了!

昨晚特别的高兴,
因为由史以来第一次中JACKPOT.
那感觉真的是很好,
虽然赢得不多。
请大家别误会,
我不是买那些赢几亿的JACKPOT.
哈哈!
咳咳!!
我的咳嗽已经三个星期了。
为什么还没好的?
还以为自己的身体很强,
原来是那么的弱!
这几天睡都睡不安。
今天就快快把工作做完,
准时放工,回家休息。
不写了,工作去吧!